Welcome! Episode 4 of Fate Check with Carolyn Clapper & Kim LaCapria is now live on YouTube, and everywhere podcasts are distributed!
Transcript to come — here are some of what we addressed:
0:00 Everything you want to know about the afterlife, part one, introduction
0:53 Continuing bonds and “only girl” widows: Kim’s disclaimer
2:00 Kim on philosophical materialism and not "believing in" the afterlife
2:22 The afterlife exists whether or not you "believe in" it
3:09 Searching for NDE and afterlife videos at 2AM
7:13 Misinformation is SO upsetting when you’re grieving
7:52 What do spirits do all day in heaven?
11:01 Are spirits “okay”? Is my loved one safe?
12:28 Earthbound spirits: Do people get “stuck,” and can talking to spirits trap them here?
15:48 WHERE is this afterlife, anyway? Is it far away?
16:25 Carolyn on how spirits show her they’re okay
17:46 Age in the afterlife and why “everyone is young” on the other side
18:53 Physical bodies and the afterlife
19:58 LDRs between heaven and earth and how Kim’s husband, Joe, still pops up out of nowhere
21:49 Arguing with the dearly departed (yes, they still have their quirks)
23:47 Afterlife intimacy and romance: Yes, spirits are still DTF
27:52 The afterlife’s onboarding process (more in part 2)
29:12 Do dead people have houses in heaven? Where do they GO and hang out?
31:18 Carolyn explains where they are and what they do with a real-life example (twist ending!)
33:37 Psychics grieve just as much as we do; no one is spared the pain of loss 💔
35:40 The secret sides of mediumship no one sees
41:54 Is there a government in the afterlife? Is there a structure? Are there rules?
43:54 Mediumship has physical limits (which is hard for Carolyn)
45:36 Spirits and loss become a part of us and that’s okay
46:00 Are there consequences in the afterlife for people who did bad things on earth? Are we held accountable for what we do here?
48:19 How do spirits see us on earth? Do they care that we age while they don’t?
50:11 Deceased loved ones can hear our thoughts (and Kim’s husband constantly tells Carolyn what Kim is thinking)
51:02 Carolyn’s example of how spirits see us
53:13 More on young widows/widowers and aging: What if my partner died young and I live to be 100?
55:14 Do dead people still have the same personality? Are they all enlightened and boring now? Do spirits feel “earthly” emotions like anger and desire? Can they get “jealous”?
57:00 Is it all love and light? Why do some mediums claim there’s no “darkness”?
59:26 Carolyn’s first experience with medical mediumship
1:04:27 The subtle signals from the other side that “push” us in a direction
1:05:49 What mediums who say everything is “love and light” are missing, and why it matters
1:07:00 It’s okay to be in a bad place and it doesn’t block access to spirits or put you in a “low vibration”
1:08:52 Can you annoy spirits by thinking about them too much? What happens when I think about a dead person — do they get a notification?
1:09:07 Is my husband hanging out with hot girls in heaven?
1:09:39 How you can “call” a deceased loved one any time, anywhere
What did we miss? Do you have follow-up questions? What’s your biggest question about the other side?
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